I sought the help of a life coach because I felt that I did not have my life under control, and I was unhappy with several areas of my life.  I had really high expectations of myself as a mom, wife, daughter, friend, employee, etc., and instead of enjoying life, I kept trying to reach perfection in all areas.  The constant pressure to live up to my own high standards and non-stop attempts to succeed was exhausting and frustrating. I am now in my late 30s, and I finally realized that this is not something I can fix myself.   

When I contacted Steven, I only knew that something wasn't quite right with my life, and that I wasn't where I wanted to be, or where I thought I would be at this age.  I knew that I didn't have any major issues, but I wasn't content and it was bothering me.  I wasn't sure whether I would be able to communicate well what exactly I need help with; however, that concern dissolved within the first 10 minutes of our initial meeting.  Steven listened to me with genuine interest and very patiently and helped me navigate through my explanation with his to-the-point questions.  I don't remember ever talking to a person who was not a family member or a close friend with such ease and feeling of comfort and total trust.  Steven didn't judge me, and he didn't tell me what to do.  He coached me to answer my own questions and to tailor the tools he gave me to my own needs.  Steven truly has a gift to communicate his passion for helping people achieve their goals through his words and actions.  Thanks to his very positive and human yet direct approach, I was comfortable opening up during our conversations, which in return allowed Steven to come up with a detailed and efficient plan for me.  

I worked with Steven for 3 months, and during that time we covered all areas of my life, even the ones I didn't think needed attention.  As we progressed, I realized that I was not aware how much all aspects of life intertwine and influence one another.  Steven didn't let me walk around any issues and he was not afraid to dig deep.  I had homework and we did exercises and Steven gave me many valuable tools to continue being on track even after our sessions ended.  There were moments of frustration and even tears, but at the end of it all, I felt like I have unloaded a ton of heavy rocks that I have carried with me for years.  I have been "on my own" for months now, and I am doing great. I have put the new tools to use quite a bit, and I have not once returned to the same state of mind I was dealing with on a daily basis before I worked with Steven.  What amazed me was a realization, that the circumstances and situations around me haven't changed - what changed with Steven's help was my perception of the world around me and the way I choose to react to it.  What a powerful skill to gain!  It has made my life so much better in the sense that I no loner allow situations to control me - I am in control of my reactions and responses.  

Working with Steven has been a life-changing experience for me and one of the best investments I have made in my life.  I have recommended him to a couple of my friends, and will continue to do so.

– Lenka , Portland, Oregon

 

Steven,

I don’t know how you did it, but you did it.

In such short period of time you managed to recognize and sort out my problems, complete stranger.

I appreciate you for the chance to meet with you and clear some fog around me or within me.

Thank you very much for your time and willingness to help me. And you ARE the big name, now I know for sure.

– Nadia , Portland, Oregon

I was SO Impressed with the training you conducted at the DHS Diversity Conference...I came back and shared the HUMAN rules and The Triangle with several co-workers!!!!!!

Thank You Very Much for the insights and new perspective options!!! I have a feeling I will be chewing on them and experimenting with them for years!!! I am looking forward, also, to reading the book I bought.

– Susan , Portland, Oregon

 

Charming, funny, well intentioned, master of the material, gives all the participants a turn to speak and share. Adding the music really made a big bang! ” –Kate, Portland, Oregon

"Steven Fulmer makes an entertaining and informative guest. As a talk show producer I always want to make sure the viewers are either entertained or have practical information they can apply in their own lives...Steven manages to provide them with both! I would recommend Steven for anyone who wants to improve a particular area of their lives....even if they didn't know they needed it!"

–Janice Bangs, KATU-TV ABC, Portland, Oregon

Steven has a great gift for drawing people out. He picks up on important, unspoken nuances and as a result I always come away with new insight and understanding of myself. I feel like I am discovering me in ways that continue to surprise me!” –Dana, Portland, Oregon

Coaching has been valuable because of its accountability. I have found the experience positive because the approach has not been to ‘fix what is wrong’ rather it has focused on how to make a good situation better.” –Jolynn, Seattle, Washington

Before coaching I always knew that I wanted more from my life, but I was too afraid to change it.” –Jodi, Yakima, Washington

To me coaching is mental fitness. Without it I don’t think I would have realized that I contain my own recipe for success – I somehow always felt that I was missing a key ingredient. My work with Steven has gotten me unstuck!” –Erica, Eugene, Oregon

When I contacted Steven I was confused about a significant decision. After the call I knew exactly what I wanted to do because I had gained power over the situation instead it holding power over me. Steven helped me to see the situation in ways that I could have never achieved on my own. His ability to hear truth and articulate its meaning in a way that I could not, is empowering.” –Wayne, Yakima, Washington

"Steven has a real gift for listening deeply to a person's unspoken story, then getting to the heart of the matter with helpful, insightful questions. His clarity and support on the journey makes all the difference in being able to take action toward a fuller life." –Liz, Portland, Oregon

Prior to working with Steven I was paralyzed by the fear of the quality of my performance surrounding a new professional position I had taken. With Steve's determination; and warm and active listening, we broke it down and peeled away the layers of my fears and concerns. We explored me as a whole person, and focused on a more truthful and genuine understanding of what I have to offer, both my job and myself. The most remarkable realization of my work with Steven was to discover that my truth and confidence was very much already within me all along, I just couldn’t see it on my own. In his inherently disarming manner, we broke down the barriers between me and me, over and over and over again.” –Meris, Portland, Oregon

I found Mr. Fulmer’s presentation not only informative, but very interesting and entertaining. He has the gift of being able to keep the subject relevant, while interjecting humor and wonderful life stories.

Mr. Fulmer kept the audience involved, which kept them alert and awake. He brought information, humor, energy and a friendly manner which allowed the audience to warm up to him.” –Georgia Coats, Houston Community College System, Texas

I had a short time frame to get up to speed with a new product line at my company. With Steven’s unique teaching style, we focused on product knowledge, presentation and, most importantly, what I personally brought to the process. I was learning my individual style and developing my own personal voice instead of being taught to mimic someone else’s canned presentation. Steven’s method of teaching is very personal, insightful and built around you as an individual in such a way that I gained much more than an understanding of sales and presentation, but an understanding and clarity of my own personal happiness and purpose as well.” –Bruce, Portland, Oregon

"I've attended over 25 conferences, workshops, and professional training sessions over the past 20 years, and Steve Fulmer's have been by far the most memorable. Steve's insight into the needs of the group, coupled with his energy and enthusiasm, are key to making the workshops a success!" Tom Evola: Washington University, Associate Registrar for the School of Engineering, St. Louis, MO